Why I’ve Been Quiet (and How I’m Rebuilding with Intention + Support)
If you’ve reached out lately and haven’t heard back — via DM, email, or text — thank you for your patience and grace.
I’ve been quieter than usual. Not because I disappeared, but because I needed to pause the nonstop notifications and constant people-ing to protect my peace, honor my health, and refocus on what I value most in my business: my clients, my creativity, and our community inside the Casita.
These past few weeks have felt heavy for your girl — physically, mentally, emotionally.
ADHD has been LOUD.
Fibromyalgia, even LOUDER.
The brain fog, imposter syndrome, and that “I should be doing more” guilt + shame spiral crept in… even as I kept showing up for my clients, hosting community events, navigating unexpected life pivots, and doing everything I could behind the scenes to honor my commitments.
The truth?
I haven’t had capacity for extra conversations, casual check-ins, or anything outside the spaces I was actively holding. So I unplugged. Focused inward. Gave myself permission to heal, reset, and rebuild without guilt.
And now I’m reemerging, not at 100%, pero with deeper clarity and stronger boundaries to support my sustainability.
I’m still here. Still working. Just more intentionally.
I’m still actively serving 1:1 strategy clients, fulfilling photo deliverables, and holding space for our Jefas inside the CCJ Casita. I just had to step back from being “on” everywhere, all the time.
Yes!! I’m still openly booking speaking engagements, collaborations, workshops, and creative projects for late Q2, Q3 + Q4. (Availability will be limited as the businesses expand, so if something’s on your heart, please reach out sooner rather than later.) I’d be honored to guide you as you build your brand online.
What’s shifting behind the scenes:
🧡 My husband, Johnny Baru, is stepping in as my unofficial communications assistant
He’ll be helping manage my inboxes and notifications so I can focus on what matters most — my calendar, content, client work, and community. We’ll be batching responses on Tuesdays and Fridays.. imagine him reading your emails or DMs to me while I dictate responses back.
I’m telling y’all — #pincheDyslexia has your girl anxious with all the words on the screen across emails and every app inbox. The notifications are endless and so overstimulating. 🫠
But here’s the thing: my hubby’s superpower is literally words on a page. He’s a pro at texting and totally unbothered by notifications. So if it feels like you’re talking to someone else… you probably are. It’s the hubs, Johnny Baru. He’s my favorite — and I think you’ll like him too. 😉
You can learn more about him on his website or IG.
Big shoutout to El Jefe, co-founder of Zuleta Unltd + everything Kita Zuleta | CCJ.
I’m so grateful to have you supporting me always. There’s no me without you. CCJ wouldn’t exist without you cheering me on through it all. Te amo.
📞 We’ve set up stronger systems
We now have designated “bat phones” that let him reach me when needed without overwhelming my nervous system. This setup also helps me stay present online without being buried by every ping or stressed about needing to get back to everyone immediately, trusting that we will get back to everyone at minimum 2x a week.
Thank y’all for your understanding as we set these systems in place + actively practice a rhythm that respects our needs + supports the management of our projects.
🏡 The best place to connect with me is still inside the CCJ Casita
That’s where I’ll be most active.. checking in with members.. there’s a DM feature that allows for voice notes + gifs in there 💬. There’s a full calendar of events happening inside: hosting cafecito + coworking, jefa book club, cafecitos, Hyperfocus sessions and strategy calls, and collaborating with the Casita Leaders building alongside me.
🔪 I’m also supporting my husband’s meal prep biz
I’m in the kitchen (sous chef status) and behind the scenes with content and marketing as we get ready for his Cinco de Mayo soft-launch. If you’re in the LA area, you’ll want a sample. Trust. 🔥
📻 Old-school communication is calling me
I’m dreaming up a voicemail line for my Jefa besties to leave messages I can reply to with voice notes. Not there yet — pero I’m exploring creative ways to stay connected without burnout.
If you’re not already in the Casita or on my email list, come through. That’s how you’ll best know what’s going on with yours truly. Or better yet — book a 1:1 cafecito. Let’s catch up. ☕️
This is not a break. It’s a reset.
I’m not stepping away from responsibility — I’m stepping into a more aligned rhythm:
✨ One that honors my body + brain.
✨ One that allows growth without grind.
✨ One that lets me lead without losing myself.
Right now I’m working on a mindful movement plan to support recalibrating my nervous system and reconnecting with my singing voice — both for healing and to strengthen it for what’s coming.
I’m also practicing my writing skills here on the blog — learning to express myself through words on a page (something that once paralyzed me). This gets to be a new skill, a soft place to land, and a way to connect more deeply with you.
Behind the scenes, I’m collaborating with Casita leaders, building out SOPs, calling in interns, and laying the foundation for sustainable expansion.
I’m manifesting mula through collaborations, grants, sponsorships, and aligned partnerships.
This season’s focus?
Creating a rhythm that allows me to keep showing up, creating, and serving — with intention.
I’m still working. Still serving. Just shifting as I get stronger.
To my clients: thank you for trusting me to honor your investment and your time. You’ll continue to receive my prioritized energy and the best of me, always.
To my community: thank you for your encouragement, your trust, and your belief in what we’re building. This vision is bigger than me — and I’m honored to walk beside you.
Las amo.
You don’t have to comment or reply. Pero you can.
I just needed to share my why — so I can leave it here, in my blog, and move forward.
Pasito a pasito.
Con amor y claridad,
Kita
